Kelly DeVere: Your Phone and Your Relationships Posted 8:44 am, January 16, 2013, by Randi Naughton, Updated at 08:50am, January 16, 2013 FacebookTwitterRedditPinterestLinkedInEmail (KTVI) – For many people, having our smartphone handy is a must. Most people have their phone near them at all times. It will ding and ping throughout the day, grabbing your attention for just a couple of seconds. But did you know that quick glance could have consequences? Licensed Family Therapist Kelly DeVere explains.